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The Money Pause
Mindful Money Resources for Women Who Want More
The Money Pause Blog is where deep thinking meets real-life money stories. Tamara shares raw insights, mindset shifts, and tools for women navigating midlife, money, and meaning.
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The Real Reason You’re Not Where You Want to Be With Money (Yet)
This blog post explores how your Sacred Money Archetype — especially the Maverick — can shape your financial path in powerful and unexpected ways. Through personal stories and reflective prompts, it invites you to understand your patterns with money, release shame, and step into empowered self-awareness.
How to Protect Yourself Financially When Democracy Starts to Crumble
When democracy starts to wobble, our sense of safety goes with it. This post explores how women can protect their finances, ground their nervous systems, and stay rooted during political upheaval.
The Hidden Cost of Being the Strong One: How Financial Independence Can Lead to Burnout
Being the strong one can feel empowering—until it starts to feel like too much. This post explores the emotional and financial toll of carrying it all alone, and what it might look like to finally let yourself rest.
If I Disappear, Am I Still Real?
What happens to our identity when we stop performing online? In this personal reflection, I explore who we really are when the likes, posts, and curated moments fall away—and what we might rediscover in the quiet.
The Whisper I’m Finally Listening To
After a lifetime of doing it all on my own, I’m learning that real strength might be found in letting others in.
Why Single Women Are Falling Behind Financially—And Why It’s Not Their Fault
An honest, heart-opening look at why single women are struggling to build wealth—and how it’s not a personal failure, but a systemic story we need to rewrite.
Turning 55 in a 9 Year: Reflections on Midlife, Numerology, and Letting Go
A raw and soulful reflection on turning 55, navigating a numerology 9 year, and the messy, magical process of letting go—complete with poison ivy and dance breaks.
When the Cost of Doing Business Goes Up—Why Tariffs Matter for Your Wallet (and Your Worth)
Learn how tariffs impact women entrepreneurs and family budgets, and get strategies to stay financially grounded in uncertain times.
What to Do When Your Investments Tank: A Woman’s Guide to Staying Grounded in Uncertain Times
Feeling anxious about your investment losses? Discover 5 powerful steps to stay financially calm, grounded, and in control—especially when the stock market tanks.
Intuition Isn’t Always Loud—Sometimes It Smells Like Lavender
Sometimes, intuition smells like lavender. It feels like straw beneath your fingertips. It sounds like a soft gong in the distance.
You Are Not Your Tax Return: Reclaiming Your Power During Tax Season
Discover how to shift your money mindset, release shame, and use your tax return as a tool for empowerment—not self-judgment.
Perimenopause & Menopause: What No One Told You (But Should Have)
Learn how perimenopause and menopause impact your body—and what you can do about it.
Midlife & Money: Why Your Finances Feel Stuck (And How to Get Unstuck)
Ever feel like no matter how much money you make, it never feels like enough?
5 Powerful Money Moves to Feel Safe in a Crisis
Financial security when the world feels unstable: A guide
Why Prioritizing Health in 2025 is My Smartest Money Move Yet
Health is to money as exercise is to a strong body.